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  • Spouse briefs: Many lessons learned in Clovis

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    Our life over the last year and a half in Clovis has been nothing short of challenging. Difficulties started the moment we found out we were moving here because my father then passed away from cancer. From that point on the craziness didn't let up. While packing out our house I began to develop pain and light sensitivity in one of my eyes. I spent four days in TLF with all the blinds closed, the lights off, in constant pain, while watching a toddler and baby. Luckily it was spring break and my sister and her family...

  • Spouse briefs: Telescope deepens appreciation of nature

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    Clovis is an interesting place. There aren't very many trees, the terrain is about as flat as can be, the elevation is over 4,000 feet and when it comes down to it not very many people live here. All these factors combined make for an incredible opportunity, the opportunity to enjoy the beauty of the night sky. All my life I grew up in midst of large urban populations. Looking up to the sky at night meant seeing a hazy light polluted brown expanse with maybe a couple of bats flying by. Although I could see the moon most night...

  • Spouse briefs: Family meetings create strong bonds

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    I would like to say that our house runs like the proverbial well-oiled machine. Every morning our kids pop out of bed with no problem and get themselves ready for school. They never forget to do their homework and chores. It would also be nice to add at this point that they are so well behaved in public that I am heaped with praise for my awesome parenting as we walk down the aisles of the grocery store. At our house, the sound of my children's voices are like the songs of angels. There is no talking back or teasing of...

  • Spouse briefs: Rivalry with father will be missed

    Rebecca Adling Cannon connections columnist

    Thanksgiving will not be the same for my family this year. For the first time in over 117 years, one of the greatest football rivalries of all time will not take place. Wherever we lived in the country as my dad was transferred from base to base, without fail he would be able to find the Texas vs. Texas A&M game on TV. He was a dyed in the wool maroon Aggie, who had attended A&M back when there were no women and everyone was in the corps of cadets. As a teenager I used to love looking at his college yearbooks; so many handsom...

  • Spouse briefs: Honor veterans, their families

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    On November 11th we set aside a day to honor all those who are serving or have served in the military. It is a chance to recognize them for making the sacrifices that enable Freedom to continue for the rest of us. Those sacrifices can range from giving up a comfortable bed and hot shower to the loss of life or limb. When it comes to honoring those who serve, taking a moment to reflect on the many unmentioned sacrifices is warranted. Those who serve are often at the mercy of the military when it comes to the city they live...

  • Spouse briefs: TV show motivates me not to hoard

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    As a military wife that frequently has to move, there is one show on TV that terrifies me. In it I see some of my darkest fears manifested in the lives of others. That show is "Hoarders" and it scares me because I come from a family of packrats. My grandparents grew up during the depression and raised kids during the rationing of World War II. Because of those two factors my grandmother never threw much out. She pretty much lived by the motto "Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without." At one point as a child I spent...

  • Spouse briefs: Fabulous Friday best day of week

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    For our little of family of seven there is something especially great about Fridays. Around our house it's not just called Friday but Fabulous Friday. It didn't start out that way but over time it has become an enduring weekly family tradition, born out of a sense of parental desperation. At some point my husband talked me into to buying a game system for our family. While it was just him playing, things seemed fine. Then our kids got old enough to want to play also. With one wanting to play there was no problem, but as soon... Full story

  • Spouse briefs: Marriages more common among military members

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    Recently a study published online in the Journal of Family Issues found that despite all the stress faced by military members with constant deployments their rates of divorce were the same or less than the civilian population. There have been so many stories in the news recently that paint a picture of military marriages and families in crisis. It is not easy to forget the stories of husbands that come home from the trauma of war and take it out on their family members, or the accounts of spouses who do not remain faithful... Full story

  • Spouse briefs: Never too old to watch cartoons

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    While growing up my childhood was punctuated with the sounds of the news. Whenever my father was home our television was always tuned in to current events and documentaries. I as a child assumed adults just watched 'reality' TV and that the realm of cartoons was only for children. While sending time with my Dad and the shows he watched, I learned more about the Iran-Contra Affair , World War II and Vietnam than the average kid. It did give me an advantage in history class but at the same time I learned early in life how...

  • The spouse Briefs: Balloon festival memories will last a lifetime

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    When realizing we were going to move to New Mexico one of the first things that my husband got excited about was the Albuquerque Balloon Festival. As a child he had attended a Balloon festival in Colorado Springs and desired greatly to share that experience with his own children. So our very first October weekend in New Mexico we took our little brood and headed to Albuquerque. My little buddies riding in the car could hardly contain their excitement. During the day we wandered the grounds, ate yummy food, watched balloon... Full story

  • The Spouse Briefs: Husband's job offers dining adventures

    Rebecca Adling Cannon Connections columnist

    There are times I truly envy my husband and some of the things his job in the Air Force allows him to do. When we got married I had been to more countries in the world then he had. Now that is not the case. He has roamed far and wide. As for me I have mostly had the kind of adventures you have at home, with little people constantly in tow. When he is gone we frequently communicate by Skype. I talk about what the kids are up to and he talks to me about food. Why food, well because a lot of the other stuff he is involved in is...